You Asked For It: How Can God Be Loving When Bad Things Happen?

Introduction:

With a new year comes a new series! For the next few weeks, we’ll be in a series called “You asked for it” where we tackle some tough questions submitted by you all. At Hope Summit, we don’t shy away from the tough questions. Your mess is welcome here, and we feel it’s part of our mission to wade through the mess with you. So this week we dive right it. How can God be loving when bad things happen? When facing severe injustice or suffering, many people struggle with reconciling God's love with their painful circumstances. This week we look at how four biblical figures dealt with injustice while maintaining their faith.

Four Biblical Examples of Facing Injustice

David's Experience

Despite being anointed as future king, David faced persecution from King Saul and had to flee for his life. In Psalm 13, he cried out asking how long God would forget him, yet ultimately declared his trust in God's unfailing love. In 1st Samuel 24, we read about a time when David had the opportunity to kill King Saul, who had relentlessly been pursuing David, seeking to take his own life. Despite this opportunity we could have hardly faulted him for taking, we see he instead chose to trust in God, his goodness, and his timing. Even if he didn’t feel it at the moment, he understood God’s love involved a bigger picture he couldn’t fully comprehend. 

Habakkuk's Story

As a prophet facing rejection and persecution, Habakkuk questioned God about injustice. In chapter 1, he cries out: "How long, Lord, must I call for help, but you do not listen? Or cry out to you, 'Violence!' but you do not save? Why do you make me look at injustice? Why do you tolerate wrongdoing? Destruction and violence are before me; there is strife, and conflict abounds.” Like Habakkuk, we can take our raw questions to God. He’s not afraid of what you have to say. But what’s important is that Habakkuk maintained dialogue with God even while questioning Him. God responded by teaching him to live by faith and trust in His perfect timing.

Elijah's Trial

After a great victory against the prophets of Baal, Elijah had to run for his life from Queen Jezebel. Even strong believers can face seasons of doubt and even depression. God often meets us in our weakness. In Elijah’s despair, God spoke to him not through dramatic displays but through a whisper, providing him with rest and a gentle restoration. 

Paul's Persecution

Despite faithfully planting churches, Paul faced severe persecution including being stoned and left for dead. Despite facing beatings, imprisonment, and constant opposition, Paul maintained an eternal perspective. In 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 he writes that "our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all." He maintained his faith and taught about God's perfect righteousness.

Understanding God's Perfect Love

God's love is perfect and complete, extending to both the righteous and unrighteous. This can be hard for us to understand since human love is inherently biased and imperfect. God allows both sun and rain to fall on everyone equally, demonstrating His perfect justice and love.

Why Does God Allow Suffering?

The difficult truth is that we live in a broken world where no one is truly righteous except Jesus Christ. The book of Job addresses the issues of why God allows suffering. In fact, that's one of the key points of the book - when Job demands answers from God about his suffering, God responds not with a philosophical explanation but with questions about His sovereignty and wisdom. God allows suffering while walking alongside us through it, using these circumstances to demonstrate His power, sovereignty and wisdom, through our faith, trust, and perseverance in him.

Life Application

Consider these questions:

1. What injustice or pain are you currently facing?

2. How can you trust God's perfect love even when circumstances are difficult?

3. Where do you see opportunities to be God's hands and feet in responding to suffering?

This week's challenge: Instead of praying for God to remove difficulties, ask Him to strengthen you through them and use you to demonstrate His love to others who are suffering. Look for practical ways to show up and serve in places where people question God's goodness. God's love is perfect and His plan is perfect, even when we don't understand it. Our role is to trust Him and be His representatives of love in a broken world. Remember, one of the ways that we can let people know God really is loving is by showing up and representing him, even in the really tough stuff of life.

The Interconnectedness of Faith

Introduction

As we transition from Christmas to the New Year, Pastor Lance shared valuable insights on the importance of interconnectedness within the church and our personal lives. This summary will help you grasp the key points and apply them to your life.

Why Do We Struggle with New Year's Resolutions?

Many of us start the New Year with resolutions, only to abandon them by "Quitters Day," the second Friday of January. Instead of making resolutions, Pastor Lance prefers to plan projects for the year. This approach led him to reflect on the importance of interconnectedness, both in our personal lives and within the church.

The Importance of Interconnectedness in the Church: What Happens When We Isolate Ourselves?

Pastor Lance shared about some of his gardening experiences, specifically one attempt he made at growing corn. His small patch of corn just didn’t take, and a farmer friend of his told him something simple yet profound, “Corn needs Corn”. Just like corn needs other corn to grow, Christians need each other to thrive. When we isolate ourselves, we stunt our spiritual growth. This lack of interconnectedness can lead to weak faith, empty hope, and sparse joy.

The Church as an Organism

The church is not just a building; it's an organism made up of interconnected parts. In 1 Corinthians 12:12-14, Paul explains that the church is like a body with many parts, all working together. When we treat the church as an organization rather than an organism, we risk stunting its growth.

The First Growth Factor: Interdependence

Interdependence or connectedness is crucial for growth. Just as corn needs to be planted close together to thrive, Christians need to be connected to grow spiritually. This interconnectedness strengthens our faith and helps us mature in Christ. Our personal lives are interconnected in ways we often overlook. Ephesians 4:17-24 teaches us that our actions in one area of life affect all other areas. Holding back any part of our life from Christ's lordship impacts our entire life and our relationship with Him.

The Impact of Compartmentalization

Many of us try to compartmentalize our lives, thinking that one area won't affect another. However, this is a lie. Every part of our life is interconnected, and holding back any area from Christ will inevitably affect our entire life.

Life Application: How Can We Apply This to Our Lives?

1. Read Ephesians 3 and 4: Take time to read these chapters and ask God what He wants you to hear about your life.

2. Examine Your Life: Identify areas where you might be compartmentalizing and holding back from Christ.

3. Take Action: Do what God tells you. Confess any sins and make changes to align your life with His will.

Questions to Reflect On

1. Are you isolating yourself from the church community?

2. How are you compartmentalizing your life, and how is it affecting your relationship with Christ?

3. What steps can you take this week to become more interconnected with your church and align your life with God's will?

Conclusion

Interconnectedness is vital for spiritual growth, both within the church and in our personal lives. By understanding and applying these principles, we can strengthen our faith and grow closer to Christ. Take the challenge this week to read Ephesians 3 and 4, examine your life, and make the necessary changes to live more interconnectedly.

Experiencing God's Presence: A Christmas Eve Reflection

Introduction

In a world filled with distractions and uncertainties, finding moments of divine connection can be challenging. This Christmas Eve, we explore the profound significance of God's presence in our lives, drawing from the timeless story of Jesus' birth. This reflection aims to help you understand and experience the presence of God more deeply, not just during the holiday season but throughout your life.

The Christmas Story

The story of Jesus' birth is a cornerstone of Christian faith. Listening to this story can evoke a sense of wonder and reverence. The birth of Jesus marked the beginning of God's renewed interaction with humanity after a long period of silence. This event was heralded by angels and witnessed by humble shepherds, symbolizing the accessibility of God's presence to all.

Seeking God's Presence - Moments of Divine Silence

Many of us have experienced times when it feels like God is silent or distant. These moments can be challenging, but they also remind us of the importance of seeking God's presence actively. Just as the shepherds on the hillside experienced a divine encounter, we too can find moments of glory in our lives.

The Promise of God's Presence

God's greatest gift to us is not material blessings but His presence. Jesus, called Emmanuel, meaning "God with us," signifies that God desires to be with us, to walk with us, and to understand our human experiences. This divine presence is accessible to us consistently, even when it feels distant.

The True Joy of Heaven - What Do We Want from Heaven?

Heaven is often described in terms of its promises—streets of gold, no more tears, eternal joy. However, the true essence of heaven is the presence of God. Earthly desires and needs will fade, but the deep spiritual connection with our Creator will fulfill us in ways beyond our current understanding.

The Reflection of God's Presence

Our current experience of God's presence is like seeing a reflection in a mirror—partial and imperfect. However, there will come a day when we will see God face to face, fully and completely. This anticipation should inspire us to seek and cherish God's presence now.

Life Application - Embracing God's Presence Daily

To experience God's presence more fully, we must intentionally seek Him in our daily lives. This can be through prayer, reading the Bible, worship, and fellowship with other believers. These practices help us tune into God's voice and recognize His presence in our lives.

Questions for Reflection

1. How often do I take time to listen to God's word rather than just read it?

2. In what ways have I experienced moments of divine silence, and how did I respond?

3. What do I truly desire from my relationship with God—His gifts or His presence?

4. How can I cultivate a deeper awareness of God's presence in my daily life?

A Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to set aside specific times to seek God's presence intentionally. Whether it's through listening to an audio Bible, spending quiet moments in prayer, or joining a small group, make a conscious effort to connect with God. Reflect on the ways He reveals Himself to you and share these experiences with others to encourage and uplift one another.

Conclusion

The presence of God is a gift that surpasses all earthly desires. As we celebrate the birth of Jesus, let us remember that God's greatest gift to us is Himself. By seeking His presence daily, we can experience the true joy and peace that come from knowing and being known by our Creator. May this Christmas season be a time of renewed connection with God and a deeper understanding of His love for us. Merry Christmas!

Presents or Presence: Week 4

Finding True Happiness in God's Presence:

As we approach the Christmas season, it's a time filled with joy, anticipation, and reflection. This week's sermon delved into the essence of true happiness and where it can be found. Are we seeking happiness in the gifts and material things of this world, or are we finding it in the presence of God? Let's explore the key points from Ecclesiastes and Psalms to understand how we can find lasting joy and satisfaction.

Disappointment in Material Gifts:

We've all experienced the disappointment of receiving a gift that didn't meet our expectations. Whether it was socks or something less exciting, these moments remind us that material things often fall short of bringing true happiness.

The Joy of Anticipation:

Conversely, the joy of receiving something we've longed for is unparalleled. This joy, however, is fleeting and often leaves us wanting more. The sermon highlighted that true happiness is not found in the getting but in being in God's presence.

The Wisdom of Solomon: Ecclesiastes 3:12-14

Solomon, known for his wisdom, explored the purpose of life and where true satisfaction lies. He tested wealth, pleasure, success, and found them all meaningless. However, he discovered that happiness is a gift from God, found in our daily lives when we do good, eat, drink, and find satisfaction in our work.

The Burden of Eternity

Solomon also noted that God has set eternity in our hearts, yet we cannot fathom His plans. This understanding can either be maddening or comforting, depending on our faith. Trusting that God makes everything beautiful in its time allows us to live in the moment and find joy in our daily lives.

Trusting and Obeying God: Psalms 37:3-6

David, Solomon's father, emphasized the importance of trusting in the Lord and doing good. When we commit our ways to God and take delight in Him, He gives us the desires of our hearts. This trust and obedience lead to true happiness, as God knows what will bring us the most joy.

The Fear of the Lord

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. This fear is not about being afraid but having a deep respect and understanding of God's authority and love. Recognizing that being apart from God is what we should truly fear helps us stay close to Him and find happiness in His presence.

Life Application: Trust in God's Timing

Understanding that God makes everything beautiful in its time helps us trust Him with our past, present, and future. This week, focus on living in the moment and finding joy in your daily activities.

Obey God's Commands

True happiness comes from trusting and obeying God. Reflect on areas in your life where you may need to align more closely with His will. Are there steps of obedience you need to take?

Reflect on Your Heart's Desires

Ask yourself:

- What do I need to be truly happy?

- Where have I set my heart?

- Am I seeking happiness in material things or in God's presence?

Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to:

1. Trust God with your daily life and find joy in the present moment.

2. Take a step of obedience in an area where you feel God is leading you.

3. Reflect on your heart's desires and realign them with God's will.

Conclusion

True happiness is a gift from God, found not in the material things of this world but in His presence. By trusting and obeying Him, we can find lasting joy and satisfaction. As we celebrate this Christmas season, let's remember that the greatest gift we can receive is God's presence in our lives.

Presents or Presence: Week 3 - God Given Gifts

Discovering Your Unique Gifts in God's Presence!

Today, we dive into the profound topic of understanding our unique gifts and how they are fully realized in the presence of God. The message is not just about recognizing the talents and abilities that make us special, but also about understanding the deeper purpose behind these gifts. Let's explore how our gifts are meant to be enjoyed and used in God's presence, leading us to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

What Makes You Unique?Understanding Your Gifts

Have you ever wondered what makes you unique? What sets you apart from everyone else? These questions are crucial because they can determine much about your life, including your career path, relationships, and self-worth. God has promised to give us good gifts, making us special and unique. But it's essential to recognize that these gifts are not just for our benefit; they are meant to be used in His presence.

The Story of Jeff and the Drums

Pastor Jeff shared a personal story about discovering his gift for drumming. Initially, he wanted to play the saxophone but found it challenging. However, when he tried the snare drum, something clicked. This moment of realization was like a divine revelation, showing him that his gift was meant to be enjoyed and used in God's presence. This story serves as a reminder that our gifts are often discovered through trial and error, and they are best realized when we seek God's presence.

God's Masterful Creation: Psalm 139:13-16

David beautifully describes how God created us with intentionality and purpose in Psalm 139:13-16. He portrays God as an artist who carefully knits us together in our mother's womb. This imagery reminds us that we are not mistakes; we are masterpieces created by a loving God. When you look at yourself, do you see this kind of artistry on display? Do you believe that you are fearfully and wonderfully made? In Ephesians 2:10 Paul says that we are God’s workmanship, some versions saying “Masterpiece” and we were created with a purpose in mind. 

Reconciling Self-Worth with God's Creation

How you view yourself often reflects how you view your Creator. If you struggle with self-worth, it's essential to reconcile your identity with God's intentional creation. Recognize that your strengths, quirks, and even weaknesses are part of God's design. Embrace the fact that you are unique and special because God made you that way.

The Purpose of Our Gifts: 1 Corinthians 12:4-7

Paul explains in 1 Corinthians 12:4-7 that the Spirit gives different gifts to each of us for the common good. These gifts are meant to bless the church and help it fulfill its mission. Whether it's cooking, teaching, or any other talent, your gift has a purpose in God's kingdom. The key is to use these gifts in His presence, allowing them to be fully realized and effective.

Living Out Your Gifting

Our church recently witnessed this during the Damascus Way Christmas party. Volunteers used their unique gifts to serve and bless others, creating a beautiful example of living out their gifting in God's presence. When you use your gifts for God's glory, you find fulfillment and joy that goes beyond personal satisfaction. God gifted each of us differently! If you’re not sure what your gifts might be, a great way to figure it out is to try serving in different areas and seeing which area seems more naturally. If you’d love to know more about your area’s of giftedness, we’d love to connect with you. 

The Greatest Gift: Love: 1 Corinthians 13:1-3

Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 that our gifts are meaningless without love. Our primary purpose is to love and be loved by God. This love is the foundation of our identity and the ultimate reason for our creation. When we use our gifts in love, we fulfill our true purpose and experience the fullness of God's presence.

Embracing God's Love

God's love is the greatest gift we can receive and give. As we embrace this love, we find our true selves and our ultimate purpose. Jesus exemplified this love by coming to earth, living among us, and sacrificing Himself for our sins. By following His example, we can fully realize our gifts and live out our purpose in God's presence.

Life Application

This week, take time to reflect on your unique gifts and how you can use them in God's presence. Consider the following questions:

1. What are the gifts and talents that make you unique?

2. How can you use these gifts to bless others and glorify God?

3. Are you seeking God's presence in your daily life and using your gifts in His presence?

Challenge for the Week

Identify one way you can use your gifts to serve others this week. Whether it's volunteering, helping a neighbor, or simply being a source of encouragement, use your gifts in love and in God's presence. As you do, you'll find greater fulfillment and purpose in your life.

Conclusion

Understanding and using our unique gifts in God's presence leads to a more fulfilling and purposeful life. By recognizing that our gifts are meant to be enjoyed and used in His presence, we can fully realize their potential. Embrace the love of God, seek His presence, and use your gifts to bless others. In doing so, you'll discover the true joy and purpose that God has for you.

Presents or Presence: Week 2 - Security

Finding True Security in God's Presence

As we navigate the holiday season, with all its joys and challenges, it's essential to remember the promise Jesus made to us: He came to give us life, and life abundantly. This abundant life is full of both good and tough times, twists, and turns. Today, continuing in our theme of “Presents or Presence” we explore how we can find true security in God's presence, especially during uncertain times.

The Desire for Security

We all have an innate desire to feel secure about our future. This longing becomes even more pronounced during challenging times. Reflecting on personal experiences highlights our deep need to know that everything will be okay. This desire for security is a fundamental part of our human experience. 

God's Promises to Us

Jeremiah 29:11 - A Promise of Hope

One of the most cherished promises in the Bible is found in Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future." These words offer immense comfort for many, assuring us that God has good plans for us, even when we face difficulties. 

The Full Blessing of Jeremiah 29:11-14

However, the true blessing of this promise is found when we read beyond verse 11. Verses 12-14 reveal that our security is found in seeking God's presence: "Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you, declares the Lord." Our true security lies in our relationship with God and His presence in our lives. Pastor Jeff reminded us of the context in which the promise of verse 11 was given. 

Heroes of Faith and Their Security in God

David's Trust in God's Presence

David, despite being pursued and facing numerous challenges, found his security in God's presence. In Psalm 16:11, he says, "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand." David's trust in God as his refuge and fortress is evident throughout the Psalms.

Isaiah's Steadfast Mind

Isaiah, who prophesied during a time of impending doom, found peace in trusting God. Isaiah 26:3-4 states, "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord himself, is the Rock eternal." Isaiah's security came from his unwavering trust in God.

Jeremiah's Hope in God's Faithfulness

Jeremiah, known as the weeping prophet, witnessed the destruction and exile of his people. Yet, in Lamentations 3:22-26, he declares, "Because of the Lord's great love, we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, 'The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.' The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him." Jeremiah's hope and security were rooted in God's faithfulness.

Modern-Day Idols and False Security

In today's world, we often seek security in temporary things like money, relationships, or entertainment. These modern-day idols can never provide the true security that only God can offer. Isaiah 41:22-23 mocks the idols, highlighting their inability to predict the future or provide real security.

The Futility of Wealth

Psalm 49:12-19 reminds us that wealth is temporary and cannot provide lasting security. True security comes from trusting in God, who will redeem us and take us to Himself.

Life Application

Seeking God's Presence

To find true security, we must seek God's presence with all our hearts. This involves a committed prayer life, regular Bible study, and fellowship with other believers. When we prioritize our relationship with God, we experience the peace and security that only His presence can provide.

Questions for Reflection

1. Where do you currently seek security in your life?

2. How can you prioritize seeking God's presence this week?

3. What steps can you take to deepen your prayer life and Bible study?

Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to seek God's presence intentionally. Spend time in prayer, read your Bible, and connect with fellow believers. As you do, trust that God will provide the security and peace you need, regardless of your circumstances.

Conclusion

True security is found not in the temporary things of this world but in the eternal presence of God. As we navigate life's challenges, let's remember to seek Him with all our hearts, trusting in His promises and finding peace in His presence. You're going to be okay, Church, because even if your circumstances aren't okay, God's presence ensures that you are. God loves us even in the midst of our messy lives, and wants to share life together! 

Presents or Presence - Week 1

What Do You Truly Want from God? Presence or Presents?

As we transition from Thanksgiving to the Christmas season, it's a perfect time to reflect on what we truly desire from God. This week, we kicked off a new sermon series titled "Presents or Presence," which challenges us to examine whether we seek the gifts God can give us or his very presence.

The Fillet Knife: A Lesson in Value

Pastor Jeff began with a story about a common Rapala fillet knife. While this knife is inexpensive and easily replaceable (you can pick one up at Scheels if you were wondering) the one he owns holds immense sentimental value because it was a gift from his grandfather. The knife represents something much greater. This story serves as a metaphor for our relationship with God. Do we just value the gifts he gives us, or do we cherish his presence in our lives?

The Israelites' Dilemma

In Exodus 33, God offers the Israelites the Promised Land but says he will not go with them due to their repeated disobedience. This was the land of milk and honey, whispered of around campfires for generations, the fulfillment of a divine covenant made with Abraham hundreds of years prior. Yet now they faced a profound choice: Would they accept this long-yearned-for inheritance without God's presence? This scenario challenges us to consider what we truly desire from God. Is it the blessings he can provide, or is it his presence that we seek?

Moses' Response: Choosing Presence Over Presents

Moses' response to God is clear and resolute: "If your presence does not go with us, do not send us from here" (Exodus 33:15). Moses understood that God's presence was more valuable than any earthly blessing. He preferred to stay in the desert with God rather than enter the Promised Land without Him. What about us? Again we consider what we truly desire from God. What would you have said? 

The Tent of Meeting: Knowing God

Exodus 33:7 says “Now Moses used to take a tent and pitch it outside the camp some distance away, calling it the “tent of meeting.” Anyone inquiring of the Lord would go to the tent of meeting outside the camp.” While anyone could go meet with God there, most Israelites stayed at their own tent entrances. There might have been any number of reasons for this hesitation: fear due to their disobedience, feeling unworthy, not seeing dramatic signs like the pillar of cloud, delegating spiritual responsibility to Moses, or being too preoccupied with dreams of future prosperity in Canaan. Any of these excuses sound familar? Maybe hit a little close to home? What keeps us from seeking God's presence today?

The New Covenant: God With Us

We are under a new covenant through Jesus Christ. Matthew 1:23 says Jesus will be called Emmanuel, meaning "God with us." We hear about that often around Christmas time…but think about what it means for us! Unlike the Israelites, we don't need to go to a special tent to be in God's presence. Through Jesus, we have direct access to God anytime, anywhere. This is the greatest gift we can receive—God's presence in our lives.

Application: Embrace God's Presence

As we reflect on this sermon, let's challenge ourselves to seek God's presence above all else. Here are a few questions to ponder this week:

1. **What do I truly desire from God?** Is it His blessings or His presence?

2. **How often do I seek God's presence in my daily life?** Am I content with just attending church, or do I strive to be in His presence continually?

3. **What distractions keep me from experiencing God's presence?** How can I overcome these distractions to deepen my relationship with Him?

Challenge for the Week

This week, make a conscious effort to spend time in God's presence. Whether through prayer, reading the Bible, or simply being still, prioritize your relationship with Him. Remember, the greatest gift God offers is not what He can give us, but Himself.

Conclusion

As we journey through this series, let's remember that God's presence is the ultimate gift. While His blessings are wonderful, they are meaningless without Him. May we, like Moses, choose God's presence over any earthly blessing and find true joy and peace in Him.

Stay tuned for the upcoming sermons in this series as we explore the good gifts God promises and how they are enriched by His presence. Come back and celebrate with us again next week! 

The Talk - 1st Thessalonians 4:3-8

Introduction

In today's message, we explored the importance of glorifying God in every aspect of our lives, including our sexual conduct. We delved into the often-avoided topic of sexual immorality, understanding its implications and how it affects our relationship with God and others.

Addressing the Elephant in the Room: Sexual Immorality

Why Talk About Sex in Church?

Sex is a topic that many prefer to avoid, yet it is crucial to discuss it within the church because God created it and has specific guidelines for its use. The sermon referenced 1 Thessalonians 4, where Paul dedicates several verses to sexual immorality, emphasizing its importance. Paul was a list guy, often giving us lists of things to do that would lead to pleasing God, or things to avoid. Sexual Immorality was always on that list, often near the very beginning. It’s clearly something important we need to understand.

The Cultural Context of Sexual Immorality

Paul's letters often include lists of behaviors that please or displease God. Interestingly, in 1 Thessalonians, he focuses solely on sexual immorality. This focus is likely due to the prevalent sexual practices in Roman and Greco cities, which were far from God's design. The sermon highlighted that our modern culture shares many similarities with these ancient societies, making Paul's message highly relevant for us. 

Understanding Moral Sexuality- What is Moral Sexuality?

If we are to avoid sexual immorality, a great starting point is to understand what God considers moral sexuality. We turned to Genesis 2, where God created man and woman to be united as one flesh. This oneness is a deep, intimate connection meant to last a lifetime. Jesus and Paul also emphasized this unity, underscoring that sex is more than a physical act; it is a spiritual and emotional bond. so there's a bigger picture here behind this understanding that we have of sex beyond just a physical encounter where two individuals get some pleasure. When God created us, it was meant for something much deeper than just a moment. There's a oneness, a fullness that happens, a connection, an intimacy that is meant to be a connection that lasts longer than just a moment. And what God has done is he has built things to last upon this relationship. What God first did was he built a oneness between a man and his wife that would then grow into the fullness of children, which would then grow into a family. And upon that foundation, upon the family, he would build things like communities. He would build things like the community of the church. And so there's a reason when Jesus says, what God has fused together, what God has joined together, let no one separate. Because he has built so much to be on this foundation.

The Impact of Sexual Immorality

Sexual immorality disrupts this God-designed unity, leading to broken relationships and communities. The bible stresses that any sexual activity outside the confines of marriage between a man and a woman is considered immoral. This includes adultery, pornography, and other forms of sexual sin.

How Does Sexual Sin Affect Others?

Sexual sin is unique because it often involves and harms others. Whether it's through adultery, pornography, or other forms of sexual immorality, these actions pull others away from God and exploit their vulnerabilities.

The Enemy's Tactics: Lies and Accusations

The enemy uses sexual sin to lie to us and then accuse us, leading to guilt and shame. However we are reminded that Jesus has already defeated sin on the cross. We are called to live in freedom, not in shame. 1st John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 

Life Application

How Can We Live a Holy Life?

Living a holy life involves aligning our actions with God's will, especially in our sexual conduct. Sanctification is the process of becoming more like Christ, its the method by which God cleanses us, and it requires us to avoid sexual immorality and seek accountability.

Questions for Reflection

1. Who are you glorifying in your daily life?

2. Are there areas in your life where you seek approval from others instead of God?

3. How can you align your sexual conduct with God's design for moral sexuality?

4. Are you willing to seek accountability and support to overcome sexual sin?

A Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to examine your motives and actions. Are you glorifying God in all areas of your life, including your sexual conduct? Seek accountability and support if you struggle with sexual sin. Remember, you are loved, and God's grace is sufficient to help you overcome any sin. Your mess is welcome here, and we are here to talk if that’s what you need!

The Quite Life: 1st Thessalonians 4

Pleasing God: A Common Struggle

Many of us strive to please the important people in our lives—our spouses, children, parents; even our bosses. This effort can be exhausting because it relies on our own strength. Similarly, we often try to please God through our own efforts, which can be equally tiring. Have you experienced this tension in your own life? The question arises: How do we please an all-powerful God? How do we find rest for our souls from striving in our own efforts?

Biblical Guidance on Pleasing God

Paul addresses this question in 1 Thessalonians 4:1-12. He instructs the Thessalonians on how to live in a way that pleases God. The key is to love God and love one another, as Jesus taught in Matthew 22:37-40. Jesus simplifies the concept of love by saying, "If you love me, keep my commands" (John 14:15). This love is not a burdensome demand but a guiding principle that leads us to live in a way that pleases God.

Love One Another: A Basic Tenet of Faith

Paul commends the Thessalonians for their love for one another and urges them to do so more and more. Loving one another is fundamental to the Christian faith. This love should extend beyond our immediate community to those in our region and even to the ends of the earth, as Jesus commanded in the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20).

The Quiet Life: A Surprising Strategy

Paul adds an unexpected element to our understanding of leading a life that pleases God and spreading the gospel: leading a quiet life. In 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, he advises believers to make it their ambition to lead a quiet life, mind their own business, and work with their hands. This approach may seem counterintuitive, but it is effective in winning the respect of outsiders and living a life that is not dependent on others.

The Offensiveness of the Gospel

The gospel is inherently offensive because it confronts us with our sinfulness and our need for a Savior. That’s why it’s critical we avoid adding unnecessary offense by tying our personal views to the gospel. Our role is to plant the seeds of the gospel and let the Holy Spirit transform hearts.

Examples of the Quiet Life

Paul and Stephen are examples of individuals who led quiet lives that had a profound impact. Paul worked hard to avoid being a burden while preaching the gospel, working as a tentmaker to earn a living. Stephen served quietly and faithfully, which eventually led to his bold proclamation of the gospel before the Sanhedrin. Even in martyrdom, Stephen's quiet life planted seeds that would later bear fruit in the life of Saul of Tarsus.

The Impact of a Quiet Life

Lance shared with us the example of Jerry, a quiet man from the church, who exemplified the power of a quiet life. Through simple acts of service and generosity, he impacted countless lives. His life was a testament to the principle that it's not what you gather but what you scatter for the sake of Christ that matters. Jerry's quiet life led his daughters and grandchildren to faith, demonstrating the far-reaching impact of living a life that pleases God. By living a faithful, quite life, Jerry established a gospel genealogy in his family that will be far reaching for many years to come. 

Life Application

Challenge for the Week

This week, challenge yourself to focus on loving others and working diligently. Avoid adding unnecessary offense to the gospel and trust the Holy Spirit to transform hearts. Reflect on what a quite life would look like in your scenario. 

Reflective Questions

1. How can you incorporate more acts of love and service into your daily routine? Think about your “One Life” - what’s an act of love you could do for them this week?

2. Are there areas in your life where you are trying to please God through your own efforts? How can you rely more on the Holy Spirit? Read Jesus’ words in Matthew 11:28-30.

3. What personal views might you be tying to the gospel that could be causing unnecessary offense?

4. How can you simplify your life to focus more on living quietly and pleasing God?

By reflecting on these questions and applying these principles, you can live a life that not only pleases God but also impacts those around you in profound ways. 

Citizens of Another Kingdom

Understanding Our Role as Christians in Voting Season

Introduction

As we approach another election season, it's essential to reflect on our responsibilities as Christians. This week's sermon delved into the complexities of voting, the importance of prayer, and our ultimate allegiance to the Kingdom of God. Let's explore these themes and understand how we can navigate this season with faith and wisdom.

Why Is Voting Important for Christians?

Voting is a civic duty that allows us to influence the direction of our nation. However, many Christians feel conflicted when the options don't align perfectly with their values. This tension can lead to disengagement or frustration.

Biblical Guidance on Leadership and Authority

The Bible doesn't directly address voting, as it wasn't a practice in biblical times. However, principles from scripture can guide us. In 1 Timothy 2:1-4, Paul urges us to pray for all people, especially those in authority, so we may live peaceful and godly lives. This peace and godliness are crucial for spreading the knowledge of truth and salvation.

The Power of Prayer Over Politics

Prayer is more powerful than our vote. While voting is important, our primary responsibility is to intercede for our leaders, regardless of their faith or actions. This intercession can lead to a more peaceful society where the gospel can flourish.

Living as Ambassadors of Christ

Our True Citizenship

2 Corinthians 5:17-20 reminds us that we are new creations in Christ and ambassadors of His Kingdom. Our primary identity is not as citizens of any earthly nation but as citizens of heaven. This perspective should shape how we engage in politics and view our role in society.

Seeking the Prosperity of Our Nation

Jeremiah 29:7 instructs the Israelites in exile to seek the peace and prosperity of their city. Similarly, we should pray for and work towards the prosperity of our nation, understanding that our well-being is tied to the nation's well-being. However, our ultimate hope and identity lie in God's Kingdom.

Navigating Political Tensions

Engaging with Grace and Wisdom

It's easy to get caught up in political debates and lose sight of our Christian witness. We must engage with grace, remembering that our goal is to reflect Christ's love and truth. This means being informed about issues, voting according to biblical principles, and maintaining a spirit of peace and unity.

Avoiding Division

Political seasons can be divisive, even within the church. We must remember that our unity in Christ is more important than any political affiliation. We should strive to understand and love those who vote differently, focusing on our shared mission to spread the gospel.

Life Application

Applying the Sermon to Our Lives

As we approach the polls, let's remember that our hope is in Christ, not in any political system. Here are some practical steps to apply this week's message:

1. **Pray for Leaders**: Commit to praying for all leaders, regardless of their political stance. Ask God to guide them and bring peace to our nation.

2. **Stay Informed**: Educate yourself on the issues and candidates, seeking to understand how they align with biblical principles.

3. **Engage with Grace**: Approach political discussions with humility and love, prioritizing relationships over winning arguments.

4. **Remember Your True Citizenship**: Keep your focus on your identity in Christ and your role as His ambassador.

Reflective Questions

1. How often do I pray for our leaders and the peace of our nation?

2. Do I approach political discussions with grace and a desire for unity?

3. How can I better align my voting decisions with biblical principles?

4. Am I more passionate about my political views or my identity in Christ?

By keeping these reflections in mind, we can navigate this election season with faith, wisdom, and a focus on our ultimate allegiance to God's Kingdom.